Books to find Solace with Death & Dying:
Die Wise:
A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul
Author: Stephen Jenkinson
No Death No Fear
Author: Thich Nhat Hanh
The Tibetan Book of the Dead:
First Complete Translation (Penguin Classics Deluxe Edition)
Author: Padmasambhava, Karma-glin-pa, Graham Coleman.